Monday, April 9, 2012

Talk About Relationships and Love: Why is FaceBook Bad for ...

The social website may be a great place to connect with family and long lost friends, but it can ruin a relationship. This is not just an opinion it's something I've seen happen to a few friends. Let me tell you it can get pretty darn ugly too. It's not that the site itself is bad, it seems that people take things wrong or literally.?

For example let's pretend a woman learns that her boyfriend has 350 friends and 250 are females. So, she gets a little angry at him, and starts to suspect that he must be having an affair and she begins snooping in his account. Her heart pounds as she reads some of the wall post and almost leaps out of her chest when

?she starts reading his private messages. Some of the computer lingo isn't familiar to her so she searches to find out what it means.? She realizes that hours have passed as she glances over at the clock. It's almost time for him to get home, so she logs out of his account and "tries" to act normal.?

When he walks in the door, it's not his face she sees. All she sees is the photos of women in his FB account, he attempts to kiss her and she shuns him. She's pissed-off, suddenly she believes without a doubt that he's been cheating on her, even though there is no reason to think like this; other than what she saw on his FaceBook.

How Do You Think This Will Affect the Relationship?

He is has no idea why she's treating him like this, they made love the night before, she kissed him before he left for work that morning. Now she's acting like a scorned woman. There is an interesting article by By John M. Grohol, PsyD survey with regards to Facebook and jealousy in relationships.?

Personally, Facebook is not something of interest, but many folks have made it a part of their daily routine. If you are in a relationship or married it might be wise to really consider how the social site may be affecting your love life.?

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